I met mine at college, he was best friends with the guy next door to me. He had a girlfriend, the other neighbor of mine. HAHA (awkward).  he broke up with her after a few weeks cause she lacked a bit of morals, and we got together. Been together ever since.

   

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 Can a bad boy truly turn good?

Does it depend on if they cut out partying? Female friends? Go to church being for real?

The bad thing about him going good is that he gets boring. He doesnt want to party even with his girl. He still drinks, but he does it while he plays xbox live single player with his online buddies and ignores you. He still doesnt put effort into the relationship, wether its because he doesnt know how or not doesnt matter he lacks the motive to learn how to be a better significant other. So now that hes totaly boring, has let himself go, and doesnt try in the relationship, theres a whole new problem.

You wish you could cheat. But deep down you dont want to. You just want to be appreciated and want to see him look at you like he did when you dated. But you cant tell him that, because a look like that you cannot fake. If its not there, it just aint there. You know its not your looks, so whats his problem????

 Going out to the beach today, looking forward to it too. Cant stand sitting around the house all day all week. Frustration with this situation is setting in, i just dont know why some men have such an issue with affection. I dont want to be smothered, but i like an arm around me or just being close to me, why is that hard? I work REAL hard on making sure im still hott but i cant get this through his head. If he thinks im hott, whats the problem?!? I hate the unwillingness to change something that i shouldnt even have to deal with. This shouldnt be a problem. I offer and give massages, special favors, special meals or desserts, i go out lookin hott i am still droppin weight, i mean for Gods sake not many women wear a two piece 6 months after having a baby.

SO there is no reasoning behind this dumb habit and i will change it if its the last thing i do. Im a good wife and if i cant get what i deserve, he better change or he risks putting this into a dangerous zone, where temptation sneaks in and im not going to lie i get tempted on a regular basis and it aint easy when i could so naturally flirt and get that attention. But i dont even go there. And i shouldnt want to. What is it with guys? Ill plan all the things i do around helping him stay faithful but he throws me out there to the men who want to play on what im lacking. Not a smart move. Argh.